How do you guys groom your facial hair? or do you shave it all off? im asking because im trying to find a style that girls might be into. Whats in these days? Some style or just shaving it all off. My goal is to attract younger women and i thought that me being 18 and able to grow a beard (middle-eastern blood) could be attractive
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Experiment & try several styles to change how you look. It makes you unpredictable and interesting. I change my facial hair style regulary and always get positive comments from women. When you have a new one that you think looks good but maybe a little strange at first as you're not used to it, walk around with confidence. I purposedly grew a badass moustache for Movember (November) and although I thought it looked dodgy at first, I got a lot of chicks telling me that they normally don't like mo, but it looks really good/sexy on me.
You'll have some haters or teases, particularly since you're only 18, so get your comebacks ready. 8)
You'll have some haters or teases, particularly since you're only 18, so get your comebacks ready. 8)
well right now i have shaved under my chin and kept everything else lol. Its my first experiment. However i dont have any hair growing an inch above my jawline so i have gotten a comment suggesting that i look like wolverine from one of my roomates who is a girl. My other roomate said it made me look older which at 18 is a plus. I guess what your saying is that i should just start shaving and seeing what looks good.
Good thing is it only takes me a week to have a good amount of hair so i can just start the canvas fresh lol
Good thing is it only takes me a week to have a good amount of hair so i can just start the canvas fresh lol
lol i'm in the same boat as you Path, except i've had a full beard since i was like 14 (freak of nature i suppose).
i started by shaving it all off, but eventually i grew to like having some facial hair. Normally i'll shave my cheeks, jaw, and leave a short almost stubble in the shape of a goatee. wrapped around my lips and to just under my chin so a moustashe as well. if i feel daring i'll leave a chinstrap along my jawline (accentuates my spanishness)
i've seen that wolverine look before too, some chicks think it's hot, though it still needs to be trimmed otherwise you WILL look like wolverine.
i started by shaving it all off, but eventually i grew to like having some facial hair. Normally i'll shave my cheeks, jaw, and leave a short almost stubble in the shape of a goatee. wrapped around my lips and to just under my chin so a moustashe as well. if i feel daring i'll leave a chinstrap along my jawline (accentuates my spanishness)
i've seen that wolverine look before too, some chicks think it's hot, though it still needs to be trimmed otherwise you WILL look like wolverine.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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