"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Pathgen

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How do you guys groom your facial hair? or do you shave it all off? im asking because im trying to find a style that girls might be into. Whats in these days? Some style or just shaving it all off. My goal is to attract younger women and i thought that me being 18 and able to grow a beard (middle-eastern blood) could be attractive
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Experiment & try several styles to change how you look. It makes you unpredictable and interesting. I change my facial hair style regulary and always get positive comments from women. When you have a new one that you think looks good but maybe a little strange at first as you're not used to it, walk around with confidence. I purposedly grew a badass moustache for Movember (November) and although I thought it looked dodgy at first, I got a lot of chicks telling me that they normally don't like mo, but it looks really good/sexy on me.

You'll have some haters or teases, particularly since you're only 18, so get your comebacks ready. 8)
 

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well right now i have shaved under my chin and kept everything else lol. Its my first experiment. However i dont have any hair growing an inch above my jawline so i have gotten a comment suggesting that i look like wolverine from one of my roomates who is a girl. My other roomate said it made me look older which at 18 is a plus. I guess what your saying is that i should just start shaving and seeing what looks good.

Good thing is it only takes me a week to have a good amount of hair so i can just start the canvas fresh lol
 

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Shaved head and a full, close-cropped beard using the #2 setting on a Remington trimmer. Forget about goatees, sideburns, and chin scraggle if you are over the age of 17.
 

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lol i'm in the same boat as you Path, except i've had a full beard since i was like 14 (freak of nature i suppose).

i started by shaving it all off, but eventually i grew to like having some facial hair. Normally i'll shave my cheeks, jaw, and leave a short almost stubble in the shape of a goatee. wrapped around my lips and to just under my chin so a moustashe as well. if i feel daring i'll leave a chinstrap along my jawline (accentuates my spanishness)

i've seen that wolverine look before too, some chicks think it's hot, though it still needs to be trimmed otherwise you WILL look like wolverine.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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whoops double post, sowwy.

DIdn't even notice :p
 
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