"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Haha okay, look, in relation to squirrels' question, I was trying to make the point that it is really difficult searching for things like that. A lot of guys would search, find no relevant results, and ask the question anyway (eg. someguy posts "i searched all the forums and couldnt find anything on this topic!!! pls help!!).

I'm sure many people at one time or another have found it difficult to properly utilise the search function to obtain relevant results.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by cant think of a user name
Haha okay, look, in relation to squirrels' question, I was trying to make the point that it is really difficult searching for things like that. A lot of guys would search, find no relevant results, and ask the question anyway (eg. someguy posts "i searched all the forums and couldnt find anything on this topic!!! pls help!!).

I'm sure many people at one time or another have found it difficult to properly utilise the search function to obtain relevant results.
In those cases, I don't mind if they post that. As long as they say "I searched the forums using "*blah*" as the keyword and didn't get any good results." That way, people can help them find the good posts.

Then again, most of the questions are answered in the Bible anyway.
 

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I've used the search many a time, but there's something about it that thwarts people away. I dunno what it is, maybe they're afraid of it, and want answers from real members*

*these are real members in the search, just old news/info- therefore the newbs dont think its valid and ask n e way
 

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Every time I see the title of this thread, I think of the "little pink button" we've all come to know and love. :D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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