"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That I love you BS

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Corndowg

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This one girl is making my mind boggle. We've been together for a while and the other day this question came up....

"What would you do if I told you I love you?"

I don't know the answer to that one. I just know that shes testing me however. Back in the day we were drunk and I told her I loved her. Since then every once in a while she teases me and says "Ha, you're in love with me!"

I ask her how she feels and she says that she loves me but she doesn't know if she's in love with me.

I'm sick of this BS. I hate that word. It only adds conflicts and occasional mental trauma :)
 

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Ashlee Angel

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Don't sweat it. If she says just say it back. No big deal.


I thought about it. I told my gf I loved her first.

But if I was with another girl she would have to say it first. It would be wrong for a girl to say she loves me and I say well I don't love you.

So just say no big deal.
 
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trajhenkhet

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Go for the Han Solo approach "I know." When she asks it.
 
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