Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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That HB10 you're chasing...

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...is NOT an HB10!!

From now on, no one here is permitted to talk about an "HB10" they're trying to hook up with unless they also attach a picture for us to verify that she is, indeed, an HB10.

Chances are she's not, and that's usually part of your problem.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Golden Arms

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No, you're wrong, my friend

MINE is REALLY an HB10


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seriously !!!


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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I believe that HB10s do exist, but that measure is totally subjective, so that means one person's HB10 may be another's HB7. That's the whole problem with the system. Granted, I do believe there are girls out there who may be universally viewed as HB9s or HB10s by the majority of the male population, but those may be few and far between.

Anyways, don't rate a girl an HB10 if it's going to make you put her up on an unreachable pedestal, because it will only hurt your ability to talk to her and establish anything with her, being that you'll be somewhat "starstruck" in her presence. I think that's the gist of this post.
 

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Originally posted by Paintballguy
thats cause hb10's dont exist
Exactly, Because everytiime you say that you will see someone that looks better.....
 

DJ Alejandro

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HB10s exist. that's for me.

they exist because i see them all the time.

looks, style, brains, popularity, personality, body.

and most importantly, i dont need someone else's opinion just to consider her an HB10. cuz she's an HB10 according to MY standards alone.
 

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Shut The Fukk Up.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Oh **** yall know what? Im the type of person, that tends to overanalyze a lot of things and tries to make up a mathematic way of looking at them and analyzing them...I mean I really do that too much, but even IIIII think thats its complete bull**** to distinguish between a 7 an 8 and a 9 or maybe a 4 and a 5..its like somebody said already...beauty lies in the eye of the beholder (is that how u say it in english?lol)....and wtf u crazy mother****ers y dont u just say she's ugly, shes average, shes above average, shes hot, shes freakin hot or whateva, it doesnt really matter whether shes a 8.74 or and 8.76 so just go by using WORDS like "hot" :rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by DJ Alejandro
HB10s exist. that's for me.

they exist because i see them all the time.

looks, style, brains, popularity, personality, body.

and most importantly, i dont need someone else's opinion just to consider her an HB10. cuz she's an HB10 according to MY standards alone.
I agree. If the person thinks they are a "HB10" then they are. Ultimately, you create your own reality. And if you think she is, then she is. I have met a couple of HB10s in my life, but it is a rare ocassion.

The thing I hate is when people talk about "HB4s". WTF, isnt that a contradiction in itself?
 

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Why have an HB10 if no one can use it? Why not just make the scale from 1-11 and have 11 as Wonder Woman status? It's all opinionated. If she's a HB10 to you, then she's a 10 to you, and that's it. What people do should reflect on how they see a person and how they see the situation. If someone needs help for an HB10, then I don't see why we have to hassle them about how HB10's don't exist.

I don't really use HB10 or HB at all, but seriously... create a whole rule for the forum telling them not to use something? No one is going to take control or force this on anyone so might as well forget it.
 

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Originally posted by HHloser2
Exactly, Because everytiime you say that you will see someone that looks better.....
Thats how I am.... I'll be like holy **** look at that girl, she is definately a 10.

5 minutes later.... I say the same thing.

They could exist but again its all subjective, your just tryin to convey the degree of hotness. heh
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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the whole terminology and rating scale means exactly two things: jack and sh*t
 

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Calling someone an HB10 is AFC....basically saying she is perfect...

"She's the hottest girl EVER" ----AFC

In any case, don't get your panties in a bunch about peoples rating scales, they're just trying to express relative-hotness...You have nothing to prove to anyone on this board concerning who you date, as long as it floats your boat.....


That is all.....
 
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