"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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That girl found out that I like her via Myspace

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Okay, long story short. So I've been talking with my friend about this girl that I'm interested with and I've already go out with her once. Yesterday, that friend gave a comment on her Myspace (they have known each other recently via messenger), it goes something like this: "Looks like Fela Kuti is hitting on you eh? Well I wish you two all the best hahaha. Okay, i will keep reporting". Damn, what a stupid thing to do. So what should I do now? Pretend that nothing's happened or should I reply the comment on her Myspace with something laidback and funny like: "Wow, what a dangerous comment by that dude. I'm afraid the gossip will spread quickly, haha."

Thanks and sorry for the weird English. And yes, I've read the bible since years ago. I only want to know about this specific issue. Maybe it sounds AFC but please give yr opinion guys. Thanks!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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He just chumpified himself,don't sweat over it.Don't talk to anyone about your feelings and your "conquests",it WILL backfire in a way,either you'll feel you have to prove yourself or random stuff like this will happen.

ps:This friend of yours probably has the hots for your girl,so tread lightly in the future.
 

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Yeah, good advice dude. But what I'm worried about is this sentence: "Okay, i will keep reporting". I'm afraid my friend has been reporting all of our discussion about that girl to that girl. If it's true than the situation is rather f**ked. Btw, I chatted with the girl some minutes ago via messenger and she acted like usual as if nothing's hapenned.
 

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Fela Kuti said:
Yeah, good advice dude. But what I'm worried about is this sentence: "Okay, i will keep reporting". I'm afraid my friend has been reporting all of our discussion about that girl to that girl. If it's true than the situation is rather f**ked. Btw, I chatted with the girl some minutes ago via messenger and she acted like usual as if nothing's hapenned.
nah man. he just said that to give himself an excuse to talk to her. I agree with that other dude, he likes her too. All that s.hit was, was him trying to bait her into saying "well, I don't really feel that way about fela kuti, I like you." what you need to be worried about is whether or not it works.
 

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hes trying to c*ckblock you over the internet haha, dont worry about that, it happens to me sometimes and i just ignore it. Hey if she likes you she may even bring it up:up: , something like that happened to me too.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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But I still haven't got the answer of what should I say to the girl. Should I bring it up or just play it cool?

btw, one thing that I found interesting is why did she put my friend's comment on top of his comments list? I know her to be selective of which comment to approve and which to put on top. And there it is, my friend's comment just above my comment.
 

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Fela Kuti said:
But I still haven't got the answer of what should I say to the girl. Should I bring it up or just play it cool?

btw, one thing that I found interesting is why did she put my friend's comment on top of his comments list? I know her to be selective of which comment to approve and which to put on top. And there it is, my friend's comment just above my comment.

Just play it cool, dont say anything about it... she might have just done it to get a reaction out of you
 

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Have you read anything at all? Something about being comfortable with showing your masculinity?

Come on man, girls are the ones that are sitting facing the rainy window with a flower in their hands saying "loves me, loves me not, loves me, loves me not". Stop the braids and keep spinning those plates and hitting the gym.
 

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Nah man, I just think that by her knowing that I like her, it will change what she thinks of me. My mystery is gone! And she won't sit facing the rainy window with a flower in their hands saying "loves me, loves me not, loves me, loves me not" anymore! Because she already know the answer. Now the weight is on my shoulder.
 

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Fela Kuti said:
Nah man, I just think that by her knowing that I like her, it will change what she thinks of me. My mystery is gone! And she won't sit facing the rainy window with a flower in their hands saying "loves me, loves me not, loves me, loves me not" anymore! Because she already know the answer. Now the weight is on my shoulder.

Well, first off, now you know what kind of a "friend" your "friend" is. Your mistery is gone? Nah, ignore and rinse. This will even benefit, because if you continue (hopefully) to be aloof because you're spinning plates, it will make her wonder EVEN MORE. No, the weight is not on your shoulder. Let's just say that you are in control... "weight on your shoulder" makes you get into a position in which I just came out of in which you are caring too much about a cvnt.

After all, it's you who's deciding if you're going to date her again, kiss her, whatever. If she says no, you're still in control since you can either kiss her ass, or make her kiss yours.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Don't be a chump, be a man!!! Go to her myspace and post this "This message is a attempt to hit on you, and the hitting on you is an attempt to get you in bed, and getting you into bed is an attempt for us to do the wild thing."
 

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Dude how you making it? Like, like i'd just DIE of embarrassment!
 
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