"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thanksgiving Eve! no line, no cover.. Advice for tonight please!

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Ok so its like I dont ever go out, in fact I go out pretty often its just that I usually just go out for certain djs and for the music really, but only girls I meet I end up just becoming friends. Its my friends that like house/techno and it sounds kinda gay but I do enjoy just going out and dancing with my friends alot of the time.

BUT tonight I'd like to really have some all around fun(girls)! I wanna dance and rly have fun with my homegirl while meeting girls at the same time or even just other groups of people! Gunna be a great dj there and I love to dance, and I'm going with a female friend whose boyfriend is the bouncer and we're getting in for free and skipping what will prob be a crazy ass line! PLEASE some advice for conversation starters or things that will SPICE up conversations and keep it sexual or exciting, for lack of a better way of putting it lol. Or I love when I have a group cuz my female friend can be kind of wack sometimes and easily bored : / But shes an amazing wing woman and has distracted the friend for me plenty of times! I just wanna be kinda crazy and outgoing tonight so any advice on getting in that mode and maybe a cpl conversation starters would be greatly appreciated!Have fun tonight everyone
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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the club I'm going have girls free all nite. guys $20 cover. aint that a b1tch.
 
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Tequila bro....do a few shots of Patron Silver Tequila. That gets my ass right into "go out, have a ****ing blast, and dance my ass off" mode.

As far as conversation starters bro, you seem to be an outgoing dude. The same energy you are giving while you are typing about how much you like dancing and having fun is the energy you need to bring to the dance floor.

Just don't give a **** tonight. Dance your ass off, laugh out loud, smile and say hi to every broad that walks by you. Be friendly, dance with random girls, JUST HAVE FUN. The conversation will come naturally once you engage with them.

The more fun you show your having the easier it will be to break the ice with some random girls because YOU DONT GIVE A **** you are too busy having a BLAST.

Thats the mindset bro. ROCK OUT!
 
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