"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thanksgiving Eve! no line, no cover.. Advice for tonight please!

CoolNotConfident

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Ok so its like I dont ever go out, in fact I go out pretty often its just that I usually just go out for certain djs and for the music really, but only girls I meet I end up just becoming friends. Its my friends that like house/techno and it sounds kinda gay but I do enjoy just going out and dancing with my friends alot of the time.

BUT tonight I'd like to really have some all around fun(girls)! I wanna dance and rly have fun with my homegirl while meeting girls at the same time or even just other groups of people! Gunna be a great dj there and I love to dance, and I'm going with a female friend whose boyfriend is the bouncer and we're getting in for free and skipping what will prob be a crazy ass line! PLEASE some advice for conversation starters or things that will SPICE up conversations and keep it sexual or exciting, for lack of a better way of putting it lol. Or I love when I have a group cuz my female friend can be kind of wack sometimes and easily bored : / But shes an amazing wing woman and has distracted the friend for me plenty of times! I just wanna be kinda crazy and outgoing tonight so any advice on getting in that mode and maybe a cpl conversation starters would be greatly appreciated!Have fun tonight everyone
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tiguere

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the club I'm going have girls free all nite. guys $20 cover. aint that a b1tch.
 

spiegel549

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Tequila bro....do a few shots of Patron Silver Tequila. That gets my ass right into "go out, have a ****ing blast, and dance my ass off" mode.

As far as conversation starters bro, you seem to be an outgoing dude. The same energy you are giving while you are typing about how much you like dancing and having fun is the energy you need to bring to the dance floor.

Just don't give a **** tonight. Dance your ass off, laugh out loud, smile and say hi to every broad that walks by you. Be friendly, dance with random girls, JUST HAVE FUN. The conversation will come naturally once you engage with them.

The more fun you show your having the easier it will be to break the ice with some random girls because YOU DONT GIVE A **** you are too busy having a BLAST.

Thats the mindset bro. ROCK OUT!
 
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