"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Thanks for everything guys

Jokerlsk

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I've learned a lot in my time here at sosuave, but I feel like the only way for me to extend my capabilities is if I go into hiatus for a while. I've learned a lot about myself, and what I want to become, but the only way for me to reach my goals is if I practice what you guys have preached to me. I'll be back later, I don't really have an estimate, but I promise I will be back with more knowledge than ever, and finally become a master DJ.

Thanks for everything,

Jokerlsk
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jokerlsk said:
I've learned a lot in my time here at sosuave, but I feel like the only way for me to extend my capabilities is if I go into hiatus for a while. I've learned a lot about myself, and what I want to become, but the only way for me to reach my goals is if I practice what you guys have preached to me. I'll be back later, I don't really have an estimate, but I promise I will be back with more knowledge than ever, and finally become a master DJ.

Thanks for everything,

Jokerlsk
So you going to become a master DJ,huh? Oh,I've got to see this. A 16 year old master DJ. Well,I guess anything's possible. You're going into hiatus. Forgive me,but can you explain to me what that means? Are you going to live in a cave or something? What's the deal?

I agree with what you said about practicing what you've learned here,however,when (not if) you start running into roadblocks and confusing female behavior,then what? Because it's going to happen. I don't see how leaving the forum is supposed to help you reach your goals and help you become this master DJ,but if that's what you want to do,you're free to do it.

I'm curious,what made you come to this decision?
 

DJVladdy

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NOO, he wants to become a keyboard jockey
 
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