"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Thanks for everything guys

Jokerlsk

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I've learned a lot in my time here at sosuave, but I feel like the only way for me to extend my capabilities is if I go into hiatus for a while. I've learned a lot about myself, and what I want to become, but the only way for me to reach my goals is if I practice what you guys have preached to me. I'll be back later, I don't really have an estimate, but I promise I will be back with more knowledge than ever, and finally become a master DJ.

Thanks for everything,

Jokerlsk
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jokerlsk said:
I've learned a lot in my time here at sosuave, but I feel like the only way for me to extend my capabilities is if I go into hiatus for a while. I've learned a lot about myself, and what I want to become, but the only way for me to reach my goals is if I practice what you guys have preached to me. I'll be back later, I don't really have an estimate, but I promise I will be back with more knowledge than ever, and finally become a master DJ.

Thanks for everything,

Jokerlsk
So you going to become a master DJ,huh? Oh,I've got to see this. A 16 year old master DJ. Well,I guess anything's possible. You're going into hiatus. Forgive me,but can you explain to me what that means? Are you going to live in a cave or something? What's the deal?

I agree with what you said about practicing what you've learned here,however,when (not if) you start running into roadblocks and confusing female behavior,then what? Because it's going to happen. I don't see how leaving the forum is supposed to help you reach your goals and help you become this master DJ,but if that's what you want to do,you're free to do it.

I'm curious,what made you come to this decision?
 

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NOO, he wants to become a keyboard jockey
 
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