"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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slapaneskimo

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I just wanted to thank everyone who posted on this site. I am a 17 year old who has finally believes he has gotten DJ skills. I have been looking at this site for at least a year. I went from having no serious girlfriend to being with a beautiful girl who is madly in love with me. All of the techniques of a DJ has become part of my personality and I dont have to think about what to say, it just comes naturally. For any readers who are skeptical about this site, take the information to heart and will work if you try to make it work. Reading does nothing unless you take action. So take it from me, whatever you are looking for in women, take the advice given here.

Once again
Thank you for helping become who I am today, a DJ
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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kabatura

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I know how you feel man, I found this site when I was about 16 and it helped me a lot. Try not to break too many hearts.
 

speakeasy

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I found this site when I was about 26 I believe. I only wish I'd found a site like this when I was still in my teens or I'd probably be married with a couple kids by now.
 
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