"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thank you Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles!

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One day last week, I was wearing my Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles t-shirt. I love this t-shirt - I don't care if it's an objective babe-magnet - since I think it's a babe-magnet, it is one. Anyway, I'm wearing my dorky t-shirt, and a this hot chick from my choir who I have been vainly wishing, as opposed to usefully acting, to get to know better says, "I love the TMNT." "Oh, really? I've never seen the movie." "Yeah, they're great, I've got them at my apartment."

"Oh could I "borrow" them?" I put borrow in quotes, since everybody knows I don't give a sh!t about those crappy movies!

I could feel the tension triple. I gulp. Damn, I hate those moments! She said, "yeah, sure." Then it was awkward. Damn.

After practice, I couldn't find her, although I did find the French chick I'm trying to steal away from her LDR.

Must bring this up with the chick again, then must go to her apartment to "pick them up." That would be good.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Flabbergasped?

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Why would you not say, "We should watch them together sometime."?
 

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Because I'm stupid, why do you think? LOL!

Brilliant.

PS I love your sig
 
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