"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Thank you Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles!

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One day last week, I was wearing my Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles t-shirt. I love this t-shirt - I don't care if it's an objective babe-magnet - since I think it's a babe-magnet, it is one. Anyway, I'm wearing my dorky t-shirt, and a this hot chick from my choir who I have been vainly wishing, as opposed to usefully acting, to get to know better says, "I love the TMNT." "Oh, really? I've never seen the movie." "Yeah, they're great, I've got them at my apartment."

"Oh could I "borrow" them?" I put borrow in quotes, since everybody knows I don't give a sh!t about those crappy movies!

I could feel the tension triple. I gulp. Damn, I hate those moments! She said, "yeah, sure." Then it was awkward. Damn.

After practice, I couldn't find her, although I did find the French chick I'm trying to steal away from her LDR.

Must bring this up with the chick again, then must go to her apartment to "pick them up." That would be good.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Flabbergasped?

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Why would you not say, "We should watch them together sometime."?
 

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Because I'm stupid, why do you think? LOL!

Brilliant.

PS I love your sig
 
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