"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thank you sosuave

convict24

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Hands down best site I could of ever stumbled across! I just wanted to thank the community. Everything is spot on. Well most of it. I sent 10 months studying. I'm still no DJ but I do much better.

Books that helped included the relistic man and the alpha male.

Iv been out of prison for 2 months and slept with more girls than I ever have in a year! Rejection means nothing to me. I read women way better than ever before. Its almost natural now. I have no problems ggetting numbers and dates sober! I'm a mystery man. Laid back cool and collective.

I'm going to stick around and keep learning and refreshing as I met a hot alpha women. I'm sure women in their early 20s might have something to do with it but I'm learning as I go.

Things that have helped. Getting my head screwed on straight after a toxic 3 year relationship, being happy with myself, figuring out who the **** I am, doing my own thing, leading not following, being a mystery, having them come to me, red flags (very important as I ultimately want a long term relationship), being sober at the bar!.

My brother says I'm sleazy, I call it smooth. My confidence is three the roof.

Problem is I find most these young women unattractive personality wise or they give it up first night with little to no effort just being in the right place at the right time. I'll keep you guys updated on the woman I'm currently seeing.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hockeyfreak79

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Bravo Conflict! Most broads are thirsty horrny sl*ts, I didn't figure this out until my my early 20s. Much too late, it's just a fact of life! The less f*ck given the better! Congrats to you!
 

BetterCallSaul

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Do these women find out you've been in prison at some point? Some can't resist guys that have been in. Either way, keep up the good work.
 

convict24

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Unfortunately it did take me till my early 20s to figure this out. Being in prison I spent a lot of time looking back and thinking about this.

I don't tell any of them that iv been in prison until second or third date. I'm open about it but not in their faces about it. I also live in a smaller town though some know what happened most don't. So two years later I come back as a whole new man.

Keep in mind sosuave also taught me not driving or having a license makes it impossible to be the man. I'm just going to say it has had 0 effect in the beginning or any effect with getting with any of these women. I'll let you guys know how this works in the long run but so far so good with this new women I hit it of with. She's definitely an alpha women and iv done a very good job of being the alpha in the relationship. Has all her **** together etc.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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