"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Thank you sosuave

convict24

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Hands down best site I could of ever stumbled across! I just wanted to thank the community. Everything is spot on. Well most of it. I sent 10 months studying. I'm still no DJ but I do much better.

Books that helped included the relistic man and the alpha male.

Iv been out of prison for 2 months and slept with more girls than I ever have in a year! Rejection means nothing to me. I read women way better than ever before. Its almost natural now. I have no problems ggetting numbers and dates sober! I'm a mystery man. Laid back cool and collective.

I'm going to stick around and keep learning and refreshing as I met a hot alpha women. I'm sure women in their early 20s might have something to do with it but I'm learning as I go.

Things that have helped. Getting my head screwed on straight after a toxic 3 year relationship, being happy with myself, figuring out who the **** I am, doing my own thing, leading not following, being a mystery, having them come to me, red flags (very important as I ultimately want a long term relationship), being sober at the bar!.

My brother says I'm sleazy, I call it smooth. My confidence is three the roof.

Problem is I find most these young women unattractive personality wise or they give it up first night with little to no effort just being in the right place at the right time. I'll keep you guys updated on the woman I'm currently seeing.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hockeyfreak79

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Bravo Conflict! Most broads are thirsty horrny sl*ts, I didn't figure this out until my my early 20s. Much too late, it's just a fact of life! The less f*ck given the better! Congrats to you!
 

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Do these women find out you've been in prison at some point? Some can't resist guys that have been in. Either way, keep up the good work.
 

convict24

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Unfortunately it did take me till my early 20s to figure this out. Being in prison I spent a lot of time looking back and thinking about this.

I don't tell any of them that iv been in prison until second or third date. I'm open about it but not in their faces about it. I also live in a smaller town though some know what happened most don't. So two years later I come back as a whole new man.

Keep in mind sosuave also taught me not driving or having a license makes it impossible to be the man. I'm just going to say it has had 0 effect in the beginning or any effect with getting with any of these women. I'll let you guys know how this works in the long run but so far so good with this new women I hit it of with. She's definitely an alpha women and iv done a very good job of being the alpha in the relationship. Has all her **** together etc.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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