"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thank you sosuave

convict24

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Hands down best site I could of ever stumbled across! I just wanted to thank the community. Everything is spot on. Well most of it. I sent 10 months studying. I'm still no DJ but I do much better.

Books that helped included the relistic man and the alpha male.

Iv been out of prison for 2 months and slept with more girls than I ever have in a year! Rejection means nothing to me. I read women way better than ever before. Its almost natural now. I have no problems ggetting numbers and dates sober! I'm a mystery man. Laid back cool and collective.

I'm going to stick around and keep learning and refreshing as I met a hot alpha women. I'm sure women in their early 20s might have something to do with it but I'm learning as I go.

Things that have helped. Getting my head screwed on straight after a toxic 3 year relationship, being happy with myself, figuring out who the **** I am, doing my own thing, leading not following, being a mystery, having them come to me, red flags (very important as I ultimately want a long term relationship), being sober at the bar!.

My brother says I'm sleazy, I call it smooth. My confidence is three the roof.

Problem is I find most these young women unattractive personality wise or they give it up first night with little to no effort just being in the right place at the right time. I'll keep you guys updated on the woman I'm currently seeing.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hockeyfreak79

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Bravo Conflict! Most broads are thirsty horrny sl*ts, I didn't figure this out until my my early 20s. Much too late, it's just a fact of life! The less f*ck given the better! Congrats to you!
 

BetterCallSaul

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Do these women find out you've been in prison at some point? Some can't resist guys that have been in. Either way, keep up the good work.
 

convict24

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Unfortunately it did take me till my early 20s to figure this out. Being in prison I spent a lot of time looking back and thinking about this.

I don't tell any of them that iv been in prison until second or third date. I'm open about it but not in their faces about it. I also live in a smaller town though some know what happened most don't. So two years later I come back as a whole new man.

Keep in mind sosuave also taught me not driving or having a license makes it impossible to be the man. I'm just going to say it has had 0 effect in the beginning or any effect with getting with any of these women. I'll let you guys know how this works in the long run but so far so good with this new women I hit it of with. She's definitely an alpha women and iv done a very good job of being the alpha in the relationship. Has all her **** together etc.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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