"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thank YOU, Sosuave.

Angelo

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Failure. Failure with women, and life, is what made me stumbled across this forum. I was an AFC, a beta, a chump, you name it. I was not a very social guy and would always try to avoid social environments. I figured, I am not cool and people would not be interested in what I have to say. My love life... was non-existant. I thought I was going to be a virgin until I die. I did not have the ability to converse with people, let alone with a woman I find attractive. But fortunately, I found this forum and everything CHANGED!

I remember the nights when I would read Pook's writing and Anti-Dump's machine. I was just in awe because everything they said just made sense. I have realized that what they were trying to say was BIGGER than just trying to get laid, no, it was to CHANGE YOUR LIFE for the better!

I soaked every amazing lessons this site had offer me. I started applying them. It changed my life so much. The lessons here are priceless. I started putting myself first, I realized what my passion in life really is and I do nothing but trying to achieve my ambitions. Notice the number of my posts, I don't post much, why? BECAUSE I AM OUT THERE LIVING LIFE!

Now I am really social. I am able to start and carry conversations without much effort, it is now natural to me. Now I am able to talk to women I find attractive, ask for their number, and call them to set up dates. But I also have the ability to brush off rejection because they really do not affect me anymore. My life is just so much better. I am more social!

Finally, I am no longer a virgin. The first time I had sex was pretty amazing, although it was not as pleasurable as I was expecting. But the more I do it the better it gets!

It's funny, waking up with a good looking woman beside me, I realize that I had come very far. And that it would not be possible if I had not found this site.

I had met my goal which was to be able to carry good conversations with women. The dates, make-outs, and sex are only bonuses.

Thanks GUYS!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Chamber36

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I was just listening Changes by 2pac, and then I stumble upon this wonderful post.

This should be brought to everyone's attention. I especially like that you learned to put yourself first. It's something we all have to keep in mind at all times in life, besides maybe when we're dealing with family.

Anyway, I applaud you!
 
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