"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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mahon83050

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Well....this site helped me man up from a post that is listed on the front page. I saw a chick in the cafeteria whom I get good vibes from (eye contact) and whom I said hi to the other day. She was in the cafeteria today sitting by herself and so was I. I said..."fuk it" you only live once and I will never be in such a good situation (being in college again) as I am now.

I walked over to her table with my cup of coffee and asked if I could join her? She said sure....we talked for about 10 minutes....I may have looked silly or asked her to many questions...but damn....it felt good to have some balls.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mahon, sometimes you stress this sh!t a little too much, who cares what other people think of you for doing so. If the woman thinks you're a creep, ad-lib it and improvise.

Change your perspective and switch it up a bit, being a good conversationalist is good, but being able to turn a negative situation into a positive one shows skill.

Most of the time we fear the outcome more than the actual event.

Nonchalance is one of the best tools a DJ can use.
 
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