"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Well....this site helped me man up from a post that is listed on the front page. I saw a chick in the cafeteria whom I get good vibes from (eye contact) and whom I said hi to the other day. She was in the cafeteria today sitting by herself and so was I. I said..."fuk it" you only live once and I will never be in such a good situation (being in college again) as I am now.

I walked over to her table with my cup of coffee and asked if I could join her? She said sure....we talked for about 10 minutes....I may have looked silly or asked her to many questions...but damn....it felt good to have some balls.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mahon, sometimes you stress this sh!t a little too much, who cares what other people think of you for doing so. If the woman thinks you're a creep, ad-lib it and improvise.

Change your perspective and switch it up a bit, being a good conversationalist is good, but being able to turn a negative situation into a positive one shows skill.

Most of the time we fear the outcome more than the actual event.

Nonchalance is one of the best tools a DJ can use.
 
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