Leah
Don Juan
Now I understand sometimes texting is necessary as a dating tool, however I have had several experiences I would like to share with you, and maybe you will learn from other mistakes 
My first text disaster (or shall I say theirs?) was a cute guy I met walking down my street. He did well, got my number and text me later that evening to ask when we were hooking up. Being a busy lady I replied 'I'll check my diary and let you know, speak soon'. Almost immediately he said 'I'm sure you can fit me in' which annoyed me, I already said I'd check my diary. He persisted all through the night to the point where I advised him he was desperate and scary. He still texts me now even though I don't reply.
The second occurrence was a guy who I'd been chasing for some time, we started meeting each other and it was going well until one night I wanted to have some space on my own. The boy text me about 20 times that night and I had to tell him to stop texting, and every day he'd ask 'when am I gonna see you then'. I would deliberately avoid the question and say something else and count the times he asked. 6 times in 15 minutes. This guy was a typical AFC, mentioning marriage after a few days, telling my mate he loved me and whenever I was quiet for more than a second he'd say 'alright?' (often 6 times in half an hour) or if I didn't want to kiss him he'd start saying 'aren't I good enough for you?' so one day I happened to say no. He is currently harrassing another poor girl.
Third occasion is somewhat like the first.
I'm sure all you DJs out here can help men like the above with tips such as wait a good 15 minutes before replying (or more) and don't appear over-eager?
My first text disaster (or shall I say theirs?) was a cute guy I met walking down my street. He did well, got my number and text me later that evening to ask when we were hooking up. Being a busy lady I replied 'I'll check my diary and let you know, speak soon'. Almost immediately he said 'I'm sure you can fit me in' which annoyed me, I already said I'd check my diary. He persisted all through the night to the point where I advised him he was desperate and scary. He still texts me now even though I don't reply.
The second occurrence was a guy who I'd been chasing for some time, we started meeting each other and it was going well until one night I wanted to have some space on my own. The boy text me about 20 times that night and I had to tell him to stop texting, and every day he'd ask 'when am I gonna see you then'. I would deliberately avoid the question and say something else and count the times he asked. 6 times in 15 minutes. This guy was a typical AFC, mentioning marriage after a few days, telling my mate he loved me and whenever I was quiet for more than a second he'd say 'alright?' (often 6 times in half an hour) or if I didn't want to kiss him he'd start saying 'aren't I good enough for you?' so one day I happened to say no. He is currently harrassing another poor girl.
Third occasion is somewhat like the first.
I'm sure all you DJs out here can help men like the above with tips such as wait a good 15 minutes before replying (or more) and don't appear over-eager?
