"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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saturos

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So i was just thinking about it since i got a number today from a girl i kind of an interested in...on this forum and the like, it seems that the general advice is to not text, but rather call, and leave texting for simple questions and not actual conversation?
In high school though, most everyone texts all the time, so should i stop?
If not, if i do text, what should it be like?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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nek08

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'If not, if i do text, what should it be like?'

I'm not really a pro at this, but i'm guessing you will be thrown into the 'friendship zone'
 

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saturos said:
So i was just thinking about it since i got a number today from a girl i kind of an interested in...on this forum and the like, it seems that the general advice is to not text, but rather call, and leave texting for simple questions and not actual conversation?
In high school though, most everyone texts all the time, so should i stop?
If not, if i do text, what should it be like?
you're right everyone does text, use it to your advantage and call her, since no one else does. i've started to shun texting simply because i can't be ****y and funny while texting, they will never here my sarcastic tone of voice. i still do text though, just be ****y and funny, but add some emoticons and ellipses (...), caps to sort of get the right tone conveyed. i never understood this before, but my english teacher told me i had a great "voice" in my writing. so text how you would talk to a girl, emphasis where it's needed, and i'm sure you can still pull it off, i have. again, nothing against texting since it's helped me, but i just like hearing girl's voices especially when you completely pwn them (playfully of course) hopefully i've helped. good luck man.
 

jeffthechef

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don't text....you'll become her *****..sometimes

there's girls in my school that are texting all the fuking time...in class, in the hall, at lunch, in the library, in the bathroom, in the shower, etc..

HOLY ****...if you're talking to her via text every single second she's awake...

1. you'll run out of good **** to talk about on a night out
2. she'll realize you have all the time in the world for her

i would use texts..(i don't text) for:
1. to plan things
2. whenever it's been a while and you want a quick feel of where she's at


but basicallly...try not to talk on your free time...talk/text only in the beginning....push/pull remember....pull really hard and game...then stop it all and she'll be forced to go out somewhere with you cause she wants your time
 

It's-Me

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saturos said:
So i was just thinking about it since i got a number today from a girl i kind of an interested in...on this forum and the like, it seems that the general advice is to not text, but rather call, and leave texting for simple questions and not actual conversation?
In high school though, most everyone texts all the time, so should i stop?
If not, if i do text, what should it be like?
There's nothing wrong with texting. I recommend you mix it up by calling her and texting some times.

Ask her what's up, what she's doing, what's she doing this weekend or talk about something that happened. And try to get sexual ;). For example, if she says you suck, just tell her you suck harder. And than the sexual conversation continues from there. Or you can misinterpret something she says as being dirty and call her a pervert.

Remember to be self-amusing when texting. I act like a total assh0le sometimes on text messages and because it's self-amusing, girls just love it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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