"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Texting with a russian woman

thebiglimp

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This is a continuation of my last post-
Met a russian woman, french kissing first date, very passionate interaction overall, then super lackster texting.
She has a busy career, yes, but its literally a phrase a two or a day and one of them always just being ‘im home, goodnight’.
Me being an american im just not used to this kind of sparse texting and i dont know what to read from this or how to respond.
I already asked her to meet this weekend but she has a business trip.
My try at small talk is only met with a word or two response from her.
Should i offer to call her, write more, keep cool, what?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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backseatjuan

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In Russia women control men, it's a post feminist society. They got game, they play the game, they are looking for rich guys or someone who they can get something from. So you are dealing with one of those. How to play a player? You can't. At this point, all she's doing is keeping you orbiting. Withdraw. If you going to be pursuing women, pursue feminine women. I don't see value in this particular girl, that's first. Second, I doubt she has a career.
 

Bokanovsky

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This is a continuation of my last post-
Met a russian woman, french kissing first date, very passionate interaction overall, then super lackster texting.
She has a busy career, yes, but its literally a phrase a two or a day and one of them always just being ‘im home, goodnight’.
Me being an american im just not used to this kind of sparse texting and i dont know what to read from this or how to respond.
I already asked her to meet this weekend but she has a business trip.
My try at small talk is only met with a word or two response from her.
Should i offer to call her, write more, keep cool, what?
Could be that she has a boyfriend or husband. Or maybe she’s not much of a texter. Have you invited her on a second date yet?
 

Kotaix

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Mirror her. Sounds like your doing something right. These days i think texting is damaging. Ive learned to shut up with the phone thing. It will kill attraction in this modern world.
I find this to be true. Schedule dates and interact with her in real life.
 

Xenom0rph

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Just about every Slavic women I ever encountered have been attractive, smart, charming, cunning and ruthless....

These women are sharp as a razor and they despise weakness from men whether it's mental, emotional, psychological, or physical weakness....

They respect men who have the courage to speak plainly about what they want: if you want a meeting or relationship, just ask her straight up, she'll respect you more that way. It would be better to call or leave a voicemail than text.

If you show any sign of emotional weakness she's gonna play you like a cat plays with a ball of yarn....
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Plinco

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This is a continuation of my last post-
Met a russian woman, french kissing first date, very passionate interaction overall, then super lackster texting.
She has a busy career, yes, but its literally a phrase a two or a day and one of them always just being ‘im home, goodnight’.
Me being an american im just not used to this kind of sparse texting and i dont know what to read from this or how to respond.
I already asked her to meet this weekend but she has a business trip.
My try at small talk is only met with a word or two response from her.
Should i offer to call her, write more, keep cool, what?
Sounds like she's leading you along. She's trying to dominate you. That would be my guess.
 
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