Texting, whatsapp you can't ignore it

[TheGambino]

Here in Holland, everyone uses whatsapp, everyone communicates with the application and most people are online almost every minute of the day checking their phone or texting. in class, at work, in the bus, bathroom, clubs (yes bro it kills social aspect) whatever.

thing is if your tryin to build some comfort be4 setting up a date how far do u guys go?

some girls just need to know u a bit more be4 she wants to hang out.
do you guys tease entertain true text making her laugh or u think its already orbiting if u do that.

I text a girl I want to hook up with maybe once in 2-3 days for 10-20mins then ending it myself.

another problem with whatsapp is she sees the time you checked your whatsapp so you can't ignore her.

but to the point: we cant ignore whatsapp, everyone in my country uses it and its the #1 thing girls use to communicate with their social cirlce

I know some guys: who get friendzoned true texting entertaining too much that the girl gets used to the chat relationship.

other guys: text all day with a girl and still get them over too f*ck next day chatting allday again.
its your style too i think

any tips about building comfort be4 asking out, and do you guys actually use it?

 

[Harry Wilmington]

Rule #1: stop assuming that just because a girl uses a certain communication tool that you need to use it too. That's being a follower, not a leader, and it doesn't make you come off as someone that does their own thing independently, regardless of what everyone else is doing.

Rule #2: Stop trying to build rapport with a woman via text. Texting KILLS relationships - heck, I wrote a whole eBook about why.

Rule #3: The only time the phone should be used is to set up dates. That's IT. The majority of your communication should be in person so there's no misunderstandings when certain things are being said, like jokes or sarcasm. It also allows you to get a better read of her actual interest - texting apps only allow words to be sent back and forth and do not allow for things like vocal inflections or facial reads to see if she actually LIKES what you're saying to her.

Rule #4: Stop using apps that tell a woman when you're on or off the phone. She doesn't need to know your every move - in fact, for the purposes of trying to attract her, it's better she NOT know what you're doing at all times.

Rule #5: Stop worry about building rapport BEFORE a date. Just talk up a girl enough to get her number, then CALL her (don't text) and ask her out. She'll get a better idea of how you are on the date anyway.

Hope this helps! For more help, click on the link in my signature

 

[XY.]

thing is if your tryin to build some comfort be4 setting up a date how far do u guys go?

KISS

 

[BraddH]

Text or no. Whatever. I can't believe mere words can affect your game so much.

 

[Mr Gyalist]

Rule #1: stop assuming that just because a girl uses a certain communication tool that you need to use it too. That's being a follower, not a leader, and it doesn't make you come off as someone that does their own thing independently, regardless of what everyone else is doing.

Rule #2: Stop trying to build rapport with a woman via text. Texting KILLS relationships - heck, I wrote a whole eBook about why.

Rule #3: The only time the phone should be used is to set up dates. That's IT. The majority of your communication should be in person so there's no misunderstandings when certain things are being said, like jokes or sarcasm. It also allows you to get a better read of her actual interest - texting apps only allow words to be sent back and forth and do not allow for things like vocal inflections or facial reads to see if she actually LIKES what you're saying to her.

Rule #4: Stop using apps that tell a woman when you're on or off the phone. She doesn't need to know your every move - in fact, for the purposes of trying to attract her, it's better she NOT know what you're doing at all times.

Rule #5: Stop worry about building rapport BEFORE a date. Just talk up a girl enough to get her number, then CALL her (don't text) and ask her out. She'll get a better idea of how you are on the date anyway.

Hope this helps! For more help, click on the link in my signature

Texting does not ALWAYS kill the relationship, this has not been proven and is not a fact...yes obviously its more ideal to meet up in person. In the past I have had text convos and even phone sex with women and ended up sleeping with them, because they liked what they heard and what they read,

Every situation is different, if a woman is into you then shes into you regardless if you only set up dates by text messaging.

Im not saying spend all day idling texting nonsense but a bit of text foreplay can work and it cant work, just depends on you or the woman

This golden rule does not work with everyone.

 

[Rainman4707]

This is what I do:-

1:- Get number.

2:- Give her a call. I like to get in touch a day or two after obtaining
number. On phone make small talk, couple of funny stories then say
arrange "get together".

Regarding whatsapp. I could care less if she knows I've been on & not
replied to her message. I do what I want, when I want & don't care what
anyone thinks of me!