Texting to get sexual

[marmel75]

Talking to this cute black girl from OKC, got her number, hit her up, Convo went OK, but only started taking a sexual turn towards the end...got caught up on talking about how there are so many lames on the site. By time we were heating up, I had to go...didn't ask her out, told her I would call her next week sometime.

Next day, I texted her:

Me: Getting ready to workout, you should join me. We could get all hot and sweaty together.
Her: Lol, have fun...
Her: I'm good, I did my walking for the day.
Me: So are you in good shape?
Her: I would say so.
Me: We'll see...I have my own grading scale
Her: lol, most guys do
Me: ya, but not like mine
Her: Well, what's your definition of an in shape women?
Me: I call it "TTO"
Her: ?
(Ended for the night)

Next morning:

Me: "Time til Tap Out"
Her: Silly Man
Me: Just being honest
Her: What's that mean?
Me: I've met too many women that talk a good game and end up begging me to stop after 15 minutes...the frantic smacking of my arm or leg is the tap out
Her: LOL, your naughty...
Me: I am willing to bet behind that cool and resrved demeanor you are too...am I right black panther?(she had told me she was beautiful and sleek like a black panther)
Her: I am a freak behind closed bedroom doors
..you might be the one tapping out, lol
Me: We'll see...you think you can tame the beast?
Her: Ya I can and we will find out soon enough...

(Ended convo)

Not sure if I should keep going, text vonvos happened
throughout the day, me taking 30 mins to 2 hours to respond, her within 2 mins usually.

Thinking of letting it ride through the weekend and going for a quick strike on Tuesday night with the "I'm going out for drinks tonight, you should join me" line

Comments, advice, criticisms?

 

[JohnChops]

If you don't bang this girl this weekend then nothing else on here will help you . Lol she pretty much said next time were alone together were fvcking..... Good stuff man good stuff

 

[ArcBound]

Looks like you know what you are doing and she is definitely interested. Not much I can say.

 

[Hustlaz Ambition]

Your txt game is beast. Nothing you did wrong here. You just gotta seal the deal next time you see her.

 

[marmel75]

Thanks for the opinions...I am not free this weekend and the next available day I have is Tuesday night...having fun sexting but don't want to overdo it...

Definitely going for a SNL when we meet up.

 

[DoubleAG]

You probably would be able to just invite her straight to your place. This is pretty much a done deal.

 

[Iceberg]

Everyone's already saying that it's a done deal, but the OP still needs to get her out on a date.

Right now, we're talking about some girl showing her sexuality in the safest way possible...via electronic communication. I'm not taking any credit away from marmel75, but I'm just bringing this back into reality. Girls will say all kinds of sh!t when there's no consequences involved. And right now, he's just some nameless stranger from the internet.

Once he gets her on that date, we'll find out if she's as good to go as she appears to be. Sometimes the women (and men) who talk the biggest game are the first ones to wilt when it comes time to back up their talk.

 

[marmel75]

Everyone's already saying that it's a done deal, but the OP still needs to get her out on a date.

Right now, we're talking about some girl showing her sexuality in the safest way possible...via electronic communication. I'm not taking any credit away from marmel75, but I'm just bringing this back into reality. Girls will say all kinds of sh!t when there's no consequences involved. And right now, he's just some nameless stranger from the internet.

Once he gets her on that date, we'll find out if she's as good to go as she appears to be. Sometimes the women (and men) who talk the biggest game are the first ones to wilt when it comes time to back up their talk.

Totally agree...gotta get her out the house first or at least myself in her house...I am hoping the fact she is in her early 40s plays to my advantage...

Iceberg, should I let it ride til Tuesday night and invite her out or should I keep going with texting off and on?

 

[bigneil]

Well done but remember: no more sexting until real sex. It will backfire. Her mood will change. At least let her initiate future sexting.

 

[Iceberg]

Totally agree...gotta get her out the house first or at least myself in her house...I am hoping the fact she is in her early 40s plays to my advantage...

Iceberg, should I let it ride til Tuesday night and invite her out or should I keep going with texting off and on?

I'm always a big fan of disappearing for a day or two. No need to be in contact every day. She's just a stranger, right? Not your wife.

 

[Greasy Pig]

In my experience, girls will say the slvttiest shyt via text and then act like nuns when you actually meet.
I think they look back on their texts and realise they've made it too easy, so they revert back to "I'm a challenge" mode.

I think she's definitely DTF, but she may not fvck you on that first date. I hope I'm wrong though!

 

[Purefilth]

Isn't this the same poster who got ripped apart by you guys for his 'white chocolate' line, and cheating on his wife. Now everyones cheering him on for sexting another chick? Personally, I don't give a fvck, and good work on getting some action but you guys have really short memories!
Name of the thread-
Cusomers friend at work wants to fvck...why do I do this...

EDIT: Dunno why i said good work.... I dont even slightly approve of this. re-read the comments you got on the last thread Marmel, i think you need to remember what a piece of sh1t you really are.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I was thinking the same thing. This is the guy.

 

[marmel75]

Not interested in hearing about that again...it has nothing to do with my post.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Yes, but your problem is that your credibility is compromised because of a general aversion to what you've expressed previously.

Our reputations precede us and influence responses.

Here is the advice you asked for:
Sit and watch your wife and children while they're sleeping. This has a way of centering and grounding a man and will provide an answer as to how to proceed with your dealings with the woman in your op.

 

[Purefilth]

Not interested in hearing about that again...it has nothing to do with my post.

Of coure you dont wanna hear it again, youre an a$sh0le
"wish I could say I feel bad about it, but I don't...not sure if I am going to go back for more or not...kinda a fuked up situation, especially if the baby daddy gets off work early one time for some reason. Might have to move it to a different venue if I do..."
"It is what it is...not necessarily proud of what I did but it felt good at the time..."
You are proud, youre still posting this crap. Go do something with your family, like a normal husband/father. You are worthless, i hope you do get caught. Or get STD's coming out of your ears.

Youre married with 2 kids.
Go get a divorce if fvcking ghetto bvtches means so much to you.