Texting less...do you come clean ?

[Jor-El]

So lets say you had a GF who you texted loads previously (and yes,we know better now...) and you got back together,and knowing better,messaged a lot less....
If she noticed this,do you come clean and say yes,loads of messaging leads to misunderstandings galore,boredom,then break ups,thats why doing it less so now...or,is it just a shrug of the shoulders kinda "thats how I am now..." What im saying is,does explicitly mentioning the reason why "ruin" it somehow or dosnt it matter ? And please,lets not get into a going back to an ex discussion,the rights and wrongs of that are another thread,if we could stick to this point. Its only hypothetical anyway....cheers guys

 

[EyeBRollin]

Nope. Just say you’re busy when she asks. If she doesn’t ask do not bring it up.

Keep testing to logistics for dates only. If she complains on the date and specifically asks you to call or text, send her a good morning text before the next date. Do it only for that one time, then go back to texting for logistics.

The phone benefits her. It doesn’t benefit you. You want to text her as little as possible, while appearing receptive to her complaints. Make sense?

 

[Jor-El]

Yeah makes sense fella

 

[dude99]

So lets say you had a GF who you texted loads previously (and yes,we know better now...) and you got back together,and knowing better,messaged a lot less....
If she noticed this,do you come clean and say yes,loads of messaging leads to misunderstandings galore,boredom,then break ups,thats why doing it less so now...or,is it just a shrug of the shoulders kinda "thats how I am now..." What im saying is,does explicitly mentioning the reason why "ruin" it somehow or dosnt it matter ? And please,lets not get into a going back to an ex discussion,the rights and wrongs of that are another thread,if we could stick to this point. Its only hypothetical anyway....cheers guys

You just say "i will text when I'm not busy."

No more explanation needed

 

[Glassguy]

You never share what you learn on here to become a better man with a woman.

They won't understand it and it will only cause issues.

You just simply tell her that you arent interested in texting all day long because you are busy. Nothing else needs to be said.

Guys that text all day long are too available, too needy and do not create mystery (which drives a woman's interest).

Who cares if she doesnt agree. Keeping a womans emotions moving is also what causes them to get wet. They dont want a predictable man and they dont want a man without a purpose.

Keep your new stronger frame going. If she leaves over it, fvck her. You'll find 3 more better than her from that solid frame.

Only yes men with no other options text one woman all day long

 

[derby1]

what glassguy said, women work indirectly and so should you

tell them Nothing

 

[Jor-El]

You never share what you learn on here to become a better man with a woman.

They won't understand it and it will only cause issues.

You just simply tell her that you arent interested in texting all day long because you are busy. Nothing else needs to be said.

Guys that text all day long are too available, too needy and do not create mystery (which drives a woman's interest).

Who cares if she doesnt agree. Keeping a womans emotions moving is also what causes them to get wet. They dont want a predictable man and they dont want a man without a purpose.

Keep your new stronger frame going. If she leaves over it, fvck her. You'll find 3 more better than her from that solid frame.

Only yes men with no other options text one woman all day long

Good post,to the point and bang on! Cheers,sometimes,you just need to hear what you already think