"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Texting is getting out of hand....

Ricky

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I don't know about you, but it seems like I'm getting a text message every 2 minutes now. And it's not just from HB's but from friends, family and co-workers.

The worst part is one coworker seems to text me about every damn boring thing he does.

Is it possible to block someones text messages?

And why are people to lazy to make a call? I can understand with my coworker since he never has anything interesting going on, but I could really do without his texts as well. Although I'm not sure how to tactfully tell him this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Suicide

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So just ignore him? People don't usually keep texting you unless you're texting back.

And I, for one, love texting. Why? Because I can do away with bull**** niceties and get straight to the point. It also allows me to respond whenever it's convenient for me. It saves time.

The other great thing is that it's concrete. I can save a text message and refer to it later. You can't do that with a phone call.
 

STR8UP

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I know this isn't what you are saying, but some others on here think texting is "girly" and shouldn't be used with women, but I disagree.

Like suicide said...it's convenient and to the point. And you can reply back whenever.
 
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