"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Texting is getting out of hand....

Ricky

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I don't know about you, but it seems like I'm getting a text message every 2 minutes now. And it's not just from HB's but from friends, family and co-workers.

The worst part is one coworker seems to text me about every damn boring thing he does.

Is it possible to block someones text messages?

And why are people to lazy to make a call? I can understand with my coworker since he never has anything interesting going on, but I could really do without his texts as well. Although I'm not sure how to tactfully tell him this.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Suicide

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So just ignore him? People don't usually keep texting you unless you're texting back.

And I, for one, love texting. Why? Because I can do away with bull**** niceties and get straight to the point. It also allows me to respond whenever it's convenient for me. It saves time.

The other great thing is that it's concrete. I can save a text message and refer to it later. You can't do that with a phone call.
 

STR8UP

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I know this isn't what you are saying, but some others on here think texting is "girly" and shouldn't be used with women, but I disagree.

Like suicide said...it's convenient and to the point. And you can reply back whenever.
 
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