"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Texting in 2013

killacam757

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What do you guys believe is the most successful approach to texting women in 2013? In my experience, most women prefer texting to phone calls. My downfall with women has been texting way to much, makes me seem too available even though my schedule is rather busy. I'm attempting to rid myself of these AFC qualities one by one.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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playa99

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Best thing to do is to do what YOU want. Putting women at the center based on what they want makes you desperate to begin with.
 

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Well you identified one thing that is important: do not text too much.

I usually only use texting to set up dates. Not sure how old you are (I'm 27) and the girls I'm dating are 21-28 range. I don't spend hours back and forth texting. Less is more.
 

VladPatton

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Just use it as a tool for setting up dates, that's all. Use caveman language even. As soon as a girl learns you're a texting fiend, she'll make it her no.1 method of communication. When you don't text every 30 seconds, she'll realize you're a face to face, or phone call kind of a guy.
 

killacam757

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Solid advice. I'm 22 by the way Uncharted. I like the fact that less is more, it adds to my mysterious side and I am indeed a face to face type guy.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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PlayHer Man

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The woman should always be doing the majority of the communication (texting, talking, emailing, Facebooking, Twittering, etc.)

As a MAN you use communication to accomplish a goal.. like setting up a date or planning something. So that's all I use it for. I really don't communicate much with women in general unless there is a goal behind it.
 
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