"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Texting Got Detroit Mayor Fired

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Life Over--caught Cheating-example

Any time you are in the public eye, everything you say or do is subject to interpretation by the public. It’s the price you pay for fame. Detroit Mayor Kwame Kilpatrick was forced to resign in September 2008 and it all began with some controversial text messages. The messages exposed he was cheating on his wife, then a domino effect initiated as he desperately tried to back peddle his way out. The deeper the media searched the more scandal they uncovered. He now faces jail time, a million dollar fine, reputation destroyed, disrespect from peers, trust issues with wife and kids, the other woman’s future career is tainted. Flashback to former President Bill Clinton and we see some similarities.

So what is to be learned from all this. If you ever are fortunate enough to reach star status, successful in the public service or date someone who is, be aware that the media is always present. If they look deep enough they will find some dirt on you. The media adores it when someone rich, famous or successful falters. On a more personal note, if you openly do something on the down-low, friends and peers will begin to speculate based upon conjecture and formulate an opinion. Keeping it real and being genuine is much more appealing then misrepresenting yourself. Avoid stress and drama by being responsible…….sure it’s not as fun but in the end you have your dignity and respect. Failure to do so and you may be held accountable or worse face the repercussions for your actions.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I respectfully disagree. Look at Obama, first said he'll get forces out of Iraq, then said he never said that. Basically the guy is a joke, the only thing that makes people love him is his use of nlp, he has no ideas, and he's not bright at all. Just someone who people would readily follow because he says change a lot with a lot of nlp at all times.

Look at Mccaint, he used to be racist at one point, never uses nlp, sucks at leading. Why do you think he's a nominee in this election? To give Obama a chance to be selected and lead the nation, lol.

People that get caught and get fired are those that don't know things well. Those that are genuine. It's a human nature to cheat, a lot of people do it. Provided you know things well like nlp and other stuff you could get away with it and be popular, look at Bill Clinton. Yea he had a fling in the oval office, and that is sooooooooo freaking cool!!! People love him. And I bet a lot of girls want to be Monica Lewinsky.
 

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CHEATING IS NOT HUMAN NATURE.........what kind of human are you, and BILL CLINTON made a mockery of being president. He's cool cause he lied, took advantage of an intern, cheated on his wife..........YA I WANNA BE THAT COOL.

I SAY YOU NOT QUITE GETTING WHAT BEING A TRUE PUA/DJ IS ALL ABOUT.

We dont get women by cheating, lying,...........if we are married we definetly don't text or have affairs while in the public eye.

and its quite obvious you have not had any real success in life with thinking that its humaN nature to cheat your way through life. Wheres your self respect man..............27.........or are you 17. Sheesh dude your post scares me........should treat your posts like MASTURBATION...........IN PRIVATE AND YOUR THE ONLY ONE WHO GETS ANY ENJOYMENT OUT OF IT.

my post was not political it was how an idiot got caught texting and his life fell apart over an affair.
 

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yes dear.............see advertisement
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm pretty sure he ended up getting fired over using the taxpayers' money for massages and his wife's new Lincoln, not screwing an intern.
 

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its the text messages that sparked the investigation.

THERES A RIGHT WAY AND A WRONG WAY TO CHEAT..............and the ARTICLE WAS ABOUT DATING SOMEONE FAMOUS AND HOW TO ACT.
 
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