Texting Gone Wrong?

[pokermaniac1122]

So I really like this girl, and things were going really well. She was with a guy about a month ago, then they broke up, now they are back together. So we were texting tonight, and it went like this.

Me: hey what're you doing
her: nothin hbu
me: same. bored. ahhhh
her: blahhhhh
me: lol. you going to any crazy parties this weekend
her: not sure
me:i wanna partay
her: really?
me: no i'm lying to you...hell yeah
her: haha oh myy
me: sorry if i'm too wild for you
her: haha nope
me: haha o rly? then why dont we party it up
her: cuz i didnt think you did lol
me: lol well now you know
(10minslater) me: so we should do something
her: like?
me: like go to a club or whatever you do, idc
(20minslater) me: you imagining how much fun we're going to have? lol
her: haha defiently
me: so what're we going to do
her: idk if i can do anything lol
me: aww why not party pooper
her: might be doing something with bf
me: boo
(10mins later): you ok? lol {note to readers: i'm add}
her: yes lol
me: welcome back i'm bored. you sure you wouldn't like to do something tonight?
(6 hrs later) me: hey
her: what do you want
me: i wanted to have a nice conversation with my friend, but she is obviously unavailable at the moment
her: your a tool
me:lol. you don't know me. i haven't had a girl in years. i just wanted to hang, i am terribly sorry for finding you as a cool person and wanting to get to know you
her: i got an idea why don't you go **** yourself
me: your really hurting my feelings, i'm sorry for anything i've done to offend you if someone told you something its probably not true. if you want to talk about this in a chill manner then we can do that but i dont wanna be yelled at idk what i did

the ****?

 

[pokermaniac1122]

her: ignore that sorry it was my bf

bingo bango bongo back in business :woo:

 

[galmorphus]

You were forcing the conversation way too much.
You sounded so desperate too hang out with her and it sounded like you were forcing it .
She probably got turned off badly and why would she want to hang with a guy who constantly tells her that he is bored?

Edit: Try to back off a little bit, wait and see if she initiates the conversation or replies back first.

"you don't know me. i haven't had a girl in years." Wtf did you say that for?

"her: ignore that sorry it was my bf
bingo bango bongo back in business" Uhh, so you're actually trying to get with her when she has a boyfriend?

 

[NorwegianDJ]

Skim my journal for some texting examples.
You're not giving her any value. Why should she hang out with you? It's not like you can appeal to her goodwill by making her feel sorry for you.
A girl will not take the lead, so don't force her to take the lead. YOU make the plans.
I also understand why she reacted why she did. If you put your self at a point with very little value, people will act that way towards you.
You also keep restarting the conversation when it's obviously over, you get the vibe that she just wants to end it. Finally, she has a bf. And drop the 'lol' and add some fun

 

[Analyzeit]

This forum isn't mean enough anymore, dude she doesn't like you, she likes her boyfriend not every girls a cheater (unfourtunate i know) anyway.

Next..

You werent being forceful just, your coming of forceful because shes not interested in you

 

[Jack Wealthy]

unfortunate not every girls a cheater... no.

Everyones already said anything that should be. Except that she tells her boyfriend all this stuff, which is why he was pissed you were annoying her. Which you were, even is she likes you you being protected by her is depended on her feeling good enough to do so.