Texting back and forth with Cute Latina secretary, how can I spicen this convo?

[The Duke]

She's into early to mid 2000s Emo music scene. She loves the All American Rejects and likes to frequent resorts, probably loves to go to the beach and frequent exotic restaurants. Typical Liberal explorer mentality for her age, which I adore. Probably the type though that goes in all girls trip to The Caribbean's with her girlfriends, which would raise some red flags and as warning sign to any dude out there wanting to get involved with her. Lol, I'm in it for the experience basically, I just want to put a smile on her face and make her day and keep her company til she find the poor chap lol

Again, does she know you are in southeast Asia?

 

[Travel memoir21]

Again, does she know you are in southeast Asia?

Yes I'm Pals with her on Social Media, Instagram and Tik Tok

 

[Divorced w 3]

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Lol, Im just being myself at this point, I intend to build this roommate, bunk mate type of online friendship with her until I get back to Texas. Then I’ll ask her out for fun. Do I have oneitis? Absolutely not, Im a highly spiritual dude and get my high elsewhere, I love God and I love nature and taking walks in the beach and park man lol.

She hasn’t asked you one question in the entire dialogue. She doesn’t like you. You feed her attention nonstop.

Secondly, related to @BackInTheGame78 making the point that someone else is going to blow her back out vs you saying you may just make a friend and so be it.. look around you buddy you’re in a seduction forum you’re not in a men’s bonding forum ..: guys are going to give you their thoughts on how to get this woman naked not how to help her find her soulmate elsewhere

 

[The Duke]

Yes I'm Pals with her on Social Media, Instagram and Tik Tok

So to be clear, your approach is to get to know each other, create a friendship, and if the friendship is solid you will pursue a romantic relationship?

 

[Travel memoir21]

She hasn’t asked you one question in the entire dialogue. She doesn’t like you. You feed her attention nonstop.

Secondly, related to @BackInTheGame78 making the point that someone else is going to blow her back out vs you saying you may just make a friend and so be it.. look around you buddy you’re in a seduction forum you’re not in a men’s bonding forum ..: guys are going to give you their thoughts on how to get this woman naked not how to help her find her soulmate elsewhere

Believe it or not Dude, I totally think this is a Men's Lifestyle forum in the sense where guys play therapist and confess a lot of things they might not reveal in the real world. Where doing a service for the common good in my opinion, hence the purpose of sites like this. As far as getting women are concerned, in my humble opinion, the whole concept is like one big oxymoron. In order to truly succeed you can't be needy, you gotta take breaks -find yourself and come back to your hobbies and purpose if you're having a dryspell or losing streak, you gotta have a sense of balance in your life for quality relationships to happen pretty much and you can't live your life trying to get women's validation. Let God or some higher creative force be your source of validation, not women. Lol, if you're cold approaching, always be in the spirit of giving and giving off positive emotions for her to cherish.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Believe it or not Dude, I totally think this is a Men's Lifestyle forum in the sense where guys play therapist and confess a lot of things they might not reveal in the real world. Where doing a service for the common good in my opinion, hence the purpose of sites like this. As far as getting women are concerned, in my humble opinion, the whole concept is like one big oxymoron. In order to truly succeed you can't be needy, you gotta take breaks -find yourself and come back to your hobbies and purpose if you're having a dryspell or losing streak, you gotta have a sense of balance in your life for quality relationships to happen pretty much and you can't live your life trying to get women's validation. Let God or some higher creative force be your source of validation, not women. Lol, if you're cold approaching, always be in the spirit of giving and giving off positive emotions for her to cherish.

Well it isnt a men’s lifestyle forum, it’s a seduction forum, and you’re deluding yourself thinking otherwise. There are plenty of places elsewhere that’ll connect with you on building a better world - this is not it. Guys here are trying to get laid.

 

[Vanderdonck]

Well what are your universal go to topics if you want to have an entertaining, enjoyable conversation? Men and Women. Personally, in real life it all boils down to your state of mind and demeanor and how you’re willing to give to the interactions. You can be talking about calculus in a passionate, laidback tone and it might work.

Google rapport building questions or videos about charisma and getting people to open up. There are lots of possibilities. Work and career are low on the list unless you're talking about hopes and dreams, or something like an embarrassing situation that happened once, or something sexual.

But these are harder to do on a chat app than in person. You want to be alone with someone whose curiosity is piqued at the very least, not someone who responds like it's a minor obligation.