Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Odisseo

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I was trying this because I read threads on here that this works.

I texted her this last night:
"Hi xxxx are you ready to be dominated?"

This morning 8 am she replied:
"Good morning Xxx. Just saw your text. You texted past my bedtime"
" lol. Happy Friday. Have a great day."

To which I replied at 11:
"You still havent answered my question"

And she replied at 1 pm:
"Well, not quite sure what is meant by it..wouldn't want to think I have a dirty mind...Dominated in what sense?..as in a game of chess or checkers?.."

Please help me make a good reply! I was gonna say something like "what I meant is me holding you from behind and pounding you" but better, but I also don't wanna go to jail lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BrainDamage92

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Bruh "Are you ready to be dominated" translates as "Hi, Im 5 years old". But opinions are like *******s so you know best. I would never write such a thing but I'm not American so... maybe its diff over there.
 

Odisseo

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LOL I agree but I wanted to try it out. I read threads on here that it works.
 

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unless you're texting a 12 year old or a sheltered nun then she knows exactly what you meant and isn't into you/it. that's a bad sign(one of the worst possible red flags, be ready to eject).

unless she likes to joke around and was just being facetious
 

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Lmao!! There are ways to do that properly and that's definitely not it...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Odisseo said:
And she replied at 1 pm:
"Well, not quite sure what is meant by it..wouldn't want to think I have a dirty mind...Dominated in what sense?..as in a game of chess or checkers?.."
"Don't play coy with me, it's only going to make things harder for you"

Just keep going with it, f*ck it.
 

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Odisseo said:
"Well, not quite sure what is meant by it..wouldn't want to think I have a dirty mind...Dominated in what sense?..as in a game of chess or checkers?.."
"Youre no fun"

NC 3 weeks, in person or otherwise


:cheer:
 

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I texted her this at 2:30 and did not get a reply:

"I'm the one asking the questions here. Answer my question "

Doesn't matter I just wanted to try this. I think I'm doing this on the wrong girl anyways
 

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You sound autistic
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Odisseo said:
Dominated in what sense?..as in a game of chess or checkers?.."
"If by chess, you mean taking a load in the butt, then yes."

:crackup:
 

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OK G1000 lives in New York (intense environment) and is a stockbroker. He's rich, ripped, repaired and has serious game. Great asset to this forum but definitely not your average Joe.

Just be aware guys that this is top 10% stuff and most girls you try it on will disappear.
 

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Odisseo said:
Lol thank you! She replied with "no" 1 hour ago
Dude wtf. Im trying to help you regain your frame. Because she replied, You can still recover with:

"Youre no fun"

NC 3 weeks, in person or otherwise


The girl is not bought in yet, You are projecting massive interest, a lack of calibration, a lack of options and a lack of self control. Reel it back and revisit in person in a couple of weeks. My brief text turns you from a controlling obsessive bastard into someone who was just trying to have fun and is now disqualifying the girl with NC.
 

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OP that's the key, what DragonBlood says - she hasn't bought in or locked onto you yet. I use the domination thing a lot, but I always make sure I have enough buy in from her, or have created an emotional spike in her, before I proceed with this type of texting.
It does work. IMO playing the domination game is one of my most successful approaches. I've up-skirted and spanked girls across their (naked) ass, over my knee in public. And a lot more than that.
But you've got to get that IOI working first. Hope that's some help.
 

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Thanks guys! I did use the "you're no fun" line and it helped. Not going anywhere with this one
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DragonBlood

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Odisseo said:
Thanks guys! I did use the "you're no fun" line and it helped. Not going anywhere with this one
Great! Did you get any further messages? How did she respond?

I think walking away for a month is definitely your best option, but who knows she might surprise you and hit you up with a dirty text in the next 2-3 months. Girls love attention and I have had afew nice surprises months down the line with girls I forgot about.
 

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Yeah I got some more texts, she was explaining me what she does for fun and I replied again "I was right you're no fun" which I think helped also but regardless this is not going anywhere with this girl, I definitely should have established more interest and attraction before playing this card.

Thanks again for the advice
 

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Thanks bro. Interesting to know she started to qualify herself when the rejection was turned on her. Does sounds like a waste of time overall though.
 
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