"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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texted hey what are you doing monday

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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xdreamz

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its not that she doesn't like. she could very much like you. when you ask a girl out you should usually do it while talking. also avoid asking like "are you free friday?" "what are your plans on monday?" Girls are smart, they know what you're up to. Try something like "hey theres such and such going on would u like to go on thursday or on friday?" hope that helps.
 

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You asked her out the wrong way... You should of planned something you want to do. Then, say; "Monday I'm going to do __________ you should join me."
 
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