"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Text Vs. Phone Call

CORVETTE06

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When you make plans with girls, do you text them or call them?

and

if you want to chill with them on saturday night, when would you text/call them to ask them to hang out?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sicx

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To me it really depends on how much you think the girl is interested in you. When i feel that the girl is interested in me, i like to text as i feel that girls like to text and mess around. Calls can sometimes get alittle to personal and they force you to constantly say things.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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meitenesrigas

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Text. I don't know where or what you date but girls that I date LOVE for you to send them cute little bears and crap. Hell, even I find myself enjoying them.
 

chance

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nothing wrong with texting. i dont believe in that bullsh!t about texting doesnt work. its fun and girls love getting text msgs.
 

qstorm501

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Text for sure.. i LOATHE talking on the phone especially to a chick that barely know or i have just met. Trust me texting does work for setting up that first date:)
 

tsmith2334

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my gut tells me to call, but i see some women (mostly younger ones) are more responsive to texts
 

PrinceBeavis

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meitenesrigas said:
Text. I don't know where or what you date but girls that I date LOVE for you to send them cute little bears and crap. Hell, even I find myself enjoying them.

Haha.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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