"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Text Vs. Phone Call

CORVETTE06

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When you make plans with girls, do you text them or call them?

and

if you want to chill with them on saturday night, when would you text/call them to ask them to hang out?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sicx

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To me it really depends on how much you think the girl is interested in you. When i feel that the girl is interested in me, i like to text as i feel that girls like to text and mess around. Calls can sometimes get alittle to personal and they force you to constantly say things.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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meitenesrigas

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Text. I don't know where or what you date but girls that I date LOVE for you to send them cute little bears and crap. Hell, even I find myself enjoying them.
 

chance

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nothing wrong with texting. i dont believe in that bullsh!t about texting doesnt work. its fun and girls love getting text msgs.
 

qstorm501

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Text for sure.. i LOATHE talking on the phone especially to a chick that barely know or i have just met. Trust me texting does work for setting up that first date:)
 

tsmith2334

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my gut tells me to call, but i see some women (mostly younger ones) are more responsive to texts
 

PrinceBeavis

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meitenesrigas said:
Text. I don't know where or what you date but girls that I date LOVE for you to send them cute little bears and crap. Hell, even I find myself enjoying them.

Haha.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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