"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok. Here goes. One of the girls im C+F with atm. Used to be working with her but im not now. We used to flirt at work all the time. Text me last night. Asking how i am. Aint seen her in about a week. I text her back today saying...

"Yo. Yeah im good. Been busy lately. What you been up to lately. Missing me?"

She replied...

"Glad ur good. Yeah im well missing you! You missing me? Not been up to alot due to being skint after christmas. How about you?"

Usually im very good at replying texts but am intrested what you fellas think.


What would be a good reply?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She took the intiative, which means she was thinking of you. You don't have to keep going back and forth ****y and funny.

Tell her you two should meet up and catch up. Just let her talk and vibe with her. kino right from the start etc..I'm sure you know all this stuff.

I really don't think you have to work on 'attracting' her as much as you have to build intimicy and reveal your intentions.

If you must, a good one i do on the phone is out of the blue i'll send: "i hate you"

then they text back "?!??!?!"

and you txt 'em "oops, sent that to the wrong person i guess :) i love you!"

this gets them really worried and then when you pull them back in, they get a rush of positive emotions, which they associate with you.

It's basically push/pull but drawn out over a longer period of time.
 
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"What's your number? I'll give you a call."
 
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