"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tomatoes

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Ok. Here goes. One of the girls im C+F with atm. Used to be working with her but im not now. We used to flirt at work all the time. Text me last night. Asking how i am. Aint seen her in about a week. I text her back today saying...

"Yo. Yeah im good. Been busy lately. What you been up to lately. Missing me?"

She replied...

"Glad ur good. Yeah im well missing you! You missing me? Not been up to alot due to being skint after christmas. How about you?"

Usually im very good at replying texts but am intrested what you fellas think.


What would be a good reply?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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spitkicker

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She took the intiative, which means she was thinking of you. You don't have to keep going back and forth ****y and funny.

Tell her you two should meet up and catch up. Just let her talk and vibe with her. kino right from the start etc..I'm sure you know all this stuff.

I really don't think you have to work on 'attracting' her as much as you have to build intimicy and reveal your intentions.

If you must, a good one i do on the phone is out of the blue i'll send: "i hate you"

then they text back "?!??!?!"

and you txt 'em "oops, sent that to the wrong person i guess :) i love you!"

this gets them really worried and then when you pull them back in, they get a rush of positive emotions, which they associate with you.

It's basically push/pull but drawn out over a longer period of time.
 

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