"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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NobodyCares1

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so long story short... I met a girl in a bus while going back form a party in a williage nearby... we talked I asked her where she lives etc... I ended up in her williage kissing with her and so on... anyway it's more coplicated than that... she just broke up with her boyfriend and said that she would probably get back with him but that day she was single... well I didn't really care much because I took it as a one night stand although she asked for my number and I gave it to her... well today she texted me that she wants my Facebook... she literally wrote just this "Hi. Give me your FB :)"

anyway I'm not really sure what would be the best response I thought about "Hi, haven't you said that you wouldn't contact me? :p Well my FB is....." what do you think?

btw. we're both 18... if that matters...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You have FB? Give it to her. or give her a call and schudle a date for tonight. Nothing special, go straight to it, say you want to drink some vodka at your place.
 

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Relax. You need not to reply fast. Th's no gun pointed to your head.

Interested in her or not ?

Not Interested..... Then, no need for a reply. Simple.

Interested..... Depends on what message you wanna pass....

Send your suggestion up there if you just wanna have her not disturbing you any further.

Wanna tease a bit? Send... Why? Business or pleasure?

I'd advice not sending more than two messages in total.
 

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So I sent her only my Facebook and a smile nothing more... she wrote a message to me on FB "oh come on... :D" (well not 100% exactly but it can't be translated well...)
 

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I don't know really, guess you can give the girl your face book "after" you make her jump through a hoop, so to speak. I've noticed that you retain a girl's interest longer when you make her work for stuff. So make her work for your fb. She seems interested, so she'll most likely play along. It should be simple and playful, like "What's in it for me?" or "Sure.. if you say please." You can make it a rule of thumb whenever a girl wants something from you. Girls do it all the time when boys they like or tease.

NobodyCares1 said:
So I sent her only my Facebook and a smile nothing more... she wrote a message to me on FB "oh come on... :D" (well not 100% exactly but it can't be translated well...)
Just notice your last reply... you would have come off a lot more interesting if you had done what I suggested. Trust me. Girls love it. But luckily she seems to already be really into you so not big deal I guess. Tho next time, playfully make her work for the stuff she wants from you or asks of you, even if it's minor like a fb. Should be rule of thumb, but never over used.

All the best to you with women.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She is going thru a break up
in the mean while she wants to taste some new couk
you are on her first few couks list
so you play the card right, her puss will be yours for a night or couple of nights
so good luck kid :)
Try to set up a date ASAP and take it from there.
 

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well I usually do that... but not from the start but when I get to know her better I tease her a lot more... but I'll tease them more from the beginnig from now on :D
 

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Dude she looks like she needs something quick for this week end, thats what i guess.
 

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should have teased her a bit with the Facebook as it seems... it would've been better...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maximummax said:
She is going thru a break up
in the mean while she wants to taste some new couk
you are on her first few couks list
so you play the card right, her puss will be yours for a night or couple of nights
so good luck kid :)
Try to set up a date ASAP and take it from there.
he said it correct, Don't tease and ruin it.
 
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