"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NobodyCares1

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so long story short... I met a girl in a bus while going back form a party in a williage nearby... we talked I asked her where she lives etc... I ended up in her williage kissing with her and so on... anyway it's more coplicated than that... she just broke up with her boyfriend and said that she would probably get back with him but that day she was single... well I didn't really care much because I took it as a one night stand although she asked for my number and I gave it to her... well today she texted me that she wants my Facebook... she literally wrote just this "Hi. Give me your FB :)"

anyway I'm not really sure what would be the best response I thought about "Hi, haven't you said that you wouldn't contact me? :p Well my FB is....." what do you think?

btw. we're both 18... if that matters...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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backseatjuan

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You have FB? Give it to her. or give her a call and schudle a date for tonight. Nothing special, go straight to it, say you want to drink some vodka at your place.
 

coochieman

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Relax. You need not to reply fast. Th's no gun pointed to your head.

Interested in her or not ?

Not Interested..... Then, no need for a reply. Simple.

Interested..... Depends on what message you wanna pass....

Send your suggestion up there if you just wanna have her not disturbing you any further.

Wanna tease a bit? Send... Why? Business or pleasure?

I'd advice not sending more than two messages in total.
 

NobodyCares1

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So I sent her only my Facebook and a smile nothing more... she wrote a message to me on FB "oh come on... :D" (well not 100% exactly but it can't be translated well...)
 

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I don't know really, guess you can give the girl your face book "after" you make her jump through a hoop, so to speak. I've noticed that you retain a girl's interest longer when you make her work for stuff. So make her work for your fb. She seems interested, so she'll most likely play along. It should be simple and playful, like "What's in it for me?" or "Sure.. if you say please." You can make it a rule of thumb whenever a girl wants something from you. Girls do it all the time when boys they like or tease.

NobodyCares1 said:
So I sent her only my Facebook and a smile nothing more... she wrote a message to me on FB "oh come on... :D" (well not 100% exactly but it can't be translated well...)
Just notice your last reply... you would have come off a lot more interesting if you had done what I suggested. Trust me. Girls love it. But luckily she seems to already be really into you so not big deal I guess. Tho next time, playfully make her work for the stuff she wants from you or asks of you, even if it's minor like a fb. Should be rule of thumb, but never over used.

All the best to you with women.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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She is going thru a break up
in the mean while she wants to taste some new couk
you are on her first few couks list
so you play the card right, her puss will be yours for a night or couple of nights
so good luck kid :)
Try to set up a date ASAP and take it from there.
 

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well I usually do that... but not from the start but when I get to know her better I tease her a lot more... but I'll tease them more from the beginnig from now on :D
 

Maximummax

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Dude she looks like she needs something quick for this week end, thats what i guess.
 

NobodyCares1

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should have teased her a bit with the Facebook as it seems... it would've been better...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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oneboy21

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Maximummax said:
She is going thru a break up
in the mean while she wants to taste some new couk
you are on her first few couks list
so you play the card right, her puss will be yours for a night or couple of nights
so good luck kid :)
Try to set up a date ASAP and take it from there.
he said it correct, Don't tease and ruin it.
 
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