“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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As a young guy myself, never take college chicks out to dinner. Way too high pressure and expensive. Dinner dates also make for shítty dates in general. You just sit there & eat. Thats a girlfriend thing. Find something cheap and less serious to do. A school event, walk, etc.

If I were you I wouldn't reply to the text. Just see her in person and gauge her interest. If it seems likely, ask in person to hang out.
OP, read this again! This is the basis for my ruling.

You presented yourself as a backup option or a friend. Good going OP. There may not be any coming back from Beta Bucks.

Dinner dates are for women you already banged. Coffee/ drinks first hangout.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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In my opinion there is no one-size-fits-all logic to this.

My feeling is, If you saw her Weds., and she suggested a second date, then you have a date secured for the weekend. Invite her to eat with you at a specific day time and place, and when she accepts, say, "Great ;) pick you up at (time)??" picking her up increases the oppty. for sex.
Followed your advice, but she said sunday she wasnt free and didnt offer a counter. I asked what day would be better , and she said she will come back to me during the next week. I said OK no problem, and after deleted her number.
 

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Well done in my opinion.

Keep doing this and you'll get a few who accept your invites...and occasionally they'll fvuck you afterwards.

Key though is that you're not waiting on her.
Bravo, they'll either tell you what day they're free or reschedule right away. Any other bs they spew will be low interest. Next
 
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