I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
OP, read this again! This is the basis for my ruling.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Followed your advice, but she said sunday she wasnt free and didnt offer a counter. I asked what day would be better , and she said she will come back to me during the next week. I said OK no problem, and after deleted her number.In my opinion there is no one-size-fits-all logic to this.
My feeling is, If you saw her Weds., and she suggested a second date, then you have a date secured for the weekend. Invite her to eat with you at a specific day time and place, and when she accepts, say, "Greatpick you up at (time)??" picking her up increases the oppty. for sex.
Bravo, they'll either tell you what day they're free or reschedule right away. Any other bs they spew will be low interest. Next