"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Text: "I have something on my mind today"

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Uh-oh, lol.

We had a real good night last Saturday, made out in car for first time while dropping her home. Had a few good texts since then.

Text this morning:
"I HAVE SOMETHING ON MY MIND TODAY. I will slowly try to share the good thoughts with you through the day, and ask that you would please consider my thoughts and tell what you think, ok?"

WTF? Would anyone like to take a stab, or is it too abstract to even attempt?

At any rate, I'll let you all know what it turns out to be.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I hate when they do that.

When a guy has a thought, it's: "Here's my thought."

When a girl has a thought, it's: "I have a thought. But I'm too afraid to express it directly. So I'm just going to make a little game out of it and tell you that I have a thought, and leave you to think about it all day."
 
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it could be anything dude!

play it out, keep an open mind, and report back to us.
 
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Atom Smasher said:
Uh-oh, lol.

We had a real good night last Saturday, made out in car for first time while dropping her home. Had a few good texts since then.

Text this morning:
"I HAVE SOMETHING ON MY MIND TODAY. I will slowly try to share the good thoughts with you through the day, and ask that you would please consider my thoughts and tell what you think, ok?"

WTF? Would anyone like to take a stab, or is it too abstract to even attempt?

At any rate, I'll let you all know what it turns out to be.
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my guess is a series of increasingly erotic texts, slowly but surely turning you on till you drive round there and smash into her
 
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I'm going to train her out of this crap, that's for sure.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Atom Smasher said:
Uh-oh, lol.

We had a real good night last Saturday, made out in car for first time while dropping her home. Had a few good texts since then.

Text this morning:
"I HAVE SOMETHING ON MY MIND TODAY. I will slowly try to share the good thoughts with you through the day, and ask that you would please consider my thoughts and tell what you think, ok?"

WTF? Would anyone like to take a stab, or is it too abstract to even attempt?

At any rate, I'll let you all know what it turns out to be.
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She's flaking, she's flaaaaaaaaaaaaaaakkkkkkkkkkiiiiiiiiiiiiiinggggggggggg

lol

In my past experience, anytime a women text you that it's never a great, and usually the next line is "I think your nice guy but right now blah blah blah"

well you get the gist of it
 
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Solomon said:
She's flaking, she's flaaaaaaaaaaaaaaakkkkkkkkkkiiiiiiiiiiiiiinggggggggggg

lol

In my past experience, anytime a women text you that it's never a great, and usually the next line is "I think your nice guy but right now blah blah blah"

well you get the gist of it
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In my experience, anytime a woman says something like this, it's her asking to be more exclusive with me.

It could be anything. He'll find out.
 
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Swear to God, this is better than Oprah!
 
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Myrrdin said:
Swear to God, this is better than Oprah!
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no it isnt. we dont get any cool prizes at the end of the show.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LOL, Atom Smasher likes to give you more for your entertainment dollar.

Free car for everybody!

She says there's no problem and that it's something "good", but we all know that one woman's "good" is another man's "not-so-good". Whatevs. Should be interesting but I am going to train her out of this because I don't like it. It could be something mundane and not so big, too. We'll see.

I don't feel very comfortable when a woman I'm with has been having "thoughts". :rolleyes:

She could be copying what I did last Saturday (in her own female way). I took her on a surprise outing. I find that when a girl likes me she usually starts copying me a lot. This might be her trying to add some "mystery" which is what I provided her on Saturday.

I'll let you guys know what happens.
 
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Hey as long as you didn't get it on, and there's no chance of her being knocked up, it's just conversation.

That's the only concern I would have with an ambiguous text: "Oh fvck she's pregnant."

In the absence of that possibility, you have no reason to care whatever she's getting at. It may have been genuine, or she might have been trying to make herself mysterious.

So did you ever get any follow-up?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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