“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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spiegel549

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Whats the general rule of thumb with a chick you met at party, hooked up with her, got her digits, waited 2 days, made plans to drink and kick it again, then the day of you hit her up and she doesnt reply back. Thanks to the iphone I can tell you read it.

Dealing with an 18 yr old college girl here.

Normally id be like fcuk it no response back onto the next, but when I originally hit her up the first time she didn't respond until I texted a 2nd time a few hours later saying "don't be shy i'm not gonna bite you ;)" then she spammed up my phone.

So I wanna hit it. She read it. Didn't respond, were suppose to be chillin tonight. Try again or leave it alone?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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alpha_ash

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If you guys made plans to meet tonight, why did you contact her? Once you make plans, you go NC until the date unless she contacts you. At that point you keep it short and sweet because you are busy.
 

spiegel549

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alpha_ash said:
If you guys made plans to meet tonight, why did you contact her? Once you make plans, you go NC until the date unless she contacts you. At that point you keep it short and sweet because you are busy.

Truth brother. Ehh I hit her up because I am actually legit busy as hell and I had other people inviting me out tonight. I gave her first shots at tonight but since my other friends had some great plans tonight I wanted to hit her up to confirm if we were getting together or not. Especially since we didn't establish when/where.

That way if she says no I could go do my other plans. But haha her not responding I guess is a no in itself lol.

Thanks dude.
 

VladPatton

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I agree with you confirming the date, fück that. Bıtches are so flaky and undecided nowadays that you should, why waste time and money. Treat her as you were treated, or chase forever like an orbiter.
 

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Ugh, NC unless you can keep it short and sexy. "I don't bite... Much" followed by a wink emoticon is way better. But whatever works for you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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