"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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spiegel549

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Whats the general rule of thumb with a chick you met at party, hooked up with her, got her digits, waited 2 days, made plans to drink and kick it again, then the day of you hit her up and she doesnt reply back. Thanks to the iphone I can tell you read it.

Dealing with an 18 yr old college girl here.

Normally id be like fcuk it no response back onto the next, but when I originally hit her up the first time she didn't respond until I texted a 2nd time a few hours later saying "don't be shy i'm not gonna bite you ;)" then she spammed up my phone.

So I wanna hit it. She read it. Didn't respond, were suppose to be chillin tonight. Try again or leave it alone?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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alpha_ash

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If you guys made plans to meet tonight, why did you contact her? Once you make plans, you go NC until the date unless she contacts you. At that point you keep it short and sweet because you are busy.
 

spiegel549

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alpha_ash said:
If you guys made plans to meet tonight, why did you contact her? Once you make plans, you go NC until the date unless she contacts you. At that point you keep it short and sweet because you are busy.

Truth brother. Ehh I hit her up because I am actually legit busy as hell and I had other people inviting me out tonight. I gave her first shots at tonight but since my other friends had some great plans tonight I wanted to hit her up to confirm if we were getting together or not. Especially since we didn't establish when/where.

That way if she says no I could go do my other plans. But haha her not responding I guess is a no in itself lol.

Thanks dude.
 

VladPatton

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I agree with you confirming the date, fück that. Bıtches are so flaky and undecided nowadays that you should, why waste time and money. Treat her as you were treated, or chase forever like an orbiter.
 

nroug7

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Ugh, NC unless you can keep it short and sexy. "I don't bite... Much" followed by a wink emoticon is way better. But whatever works for you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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