"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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tennisbuck12

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I've taking this great women out a few times and since our last date texting has slowed down. That is fine, and she's been sick.

Her last text last night said I've gotten migranes my whole life. Some thing trigger them but sometimes i get them. I can brealy function.

I haven't respond, but I would love to keep interest with this one. What should I do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"I hope you feel better hun....let me know when you're feeling better and we will go grab a drink"
 

Young OG

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If it were me, I would text her and tell her I'm sorry she hasn't been feeling well etc. Then I would throw in a few texts of chit chat. After that I would try to set up the 3rd date. If you get anything else besides yes, then next her. Don't ask about the date in the first text or it makes you look needy/desperate.

Escalate hard on the date. If you don't bang her then next her. If a woman doesn't put out by the 3rd date, it's a auto next.

I meant to reply to your other thread before. I'm guessing you didn't like the replies you got, so you made this one in the mature section.
 

sodbuster

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Why would you want a broken car that doesn't run half the time? Let someone else think he landed a prize and date/marry her.
 

FwoGiZ

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How many times did you went on dates with her? The way you talk, you went on several and still aren't ****ing? It's a bit late....
I find it much easier to keep em interested using my ****(attention) than texts.......
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Derek Flint

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"I hope you feel better hun....let me know when you're feeling better and we will go grab a drink"
I get them as well and a night at the Playboy Mansion would be out of the question.

Follow the above advice and wait for her to get back to you.

If she doesn't, figure out why you didn't game here correctly and move on.
 
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