"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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tennisbuck12

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I've taking this great women out a few times and since our last date texting has slowed down. That is fine, and she's been sick.

Her last text last night said I've gotten migranes my whole life. Some thing trigger them but sometimes i get them. I can brealy function.

I haven't respond, but I would love to keep interest with this one. What should I do?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"I hope you feel better hun....let me know when you're feeling better and we will go grab a drink"
 

Young OG

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If it were me, I would text her and tell her I'm sorry she hasn't been feeling well etc. Then I would throw in a few texts of chit chat. After that I would try to set up the 3rd date. If you get anything else besides yes, then next her. Don't ask about the date in the first text or it makes you look needy/desperate.

Escalate hard on the date. If you don't bang her then next her. If a woman doesn't put out by the 3rd date, it's a auto next.

I meant to reply to your other thread before. I'm guessing you didn't like the replies you got, so you made this one in the mature section.
 

sodbuster

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Why would you want a broken car that doesn't run half the time? Let someone else think he landed a prize and date/marry her.
 

FwoGiZ

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How many times did you went on dates with her? The way you talk, you went on several and still aren't ****ing? It's a bit late....
I find it much easier to keep em interested using my ****(attention) than texts.......
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Derek Flint

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"I hope you feel better hun....let me know when you're feeling better and we will go grab a drink"
I get them as well and a night at the Playboy Mansion would be out of the question.

Follow the above advice and wait for her to get back to you.

If she doesn't, figure out why you didn't game here correctly and move on.
 
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