"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Text game with difficult women

gravityeyelids

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how do you deal with women that are straight up curt and borderline rude? Technically this is a tinder convo, but still:

Me: You look like you could be fun ;)
Her: hahaha
me: I'm glad you're amused
Her: I am very.
Me: You think you're cool?
Her: yes

DONT CRITIQUE MY GAME. IM AWARE THAT IS CONVO IS NOT TOP NOTCH. I don't need a dozen people posting that "your opening line sux brah",etc. etc. I'm spamming a bunch of different lines to work on my text game and see what works. im just using this convo as an example. Sorry, just a pet peeve of mine on this site when people do that sh!t.

My question is....the fact that she's responding is a good sign. However its lose lose because she's giving me very quick lame answers and it looks like im trying to win her attention (which i am). If i call her out on it, i lose. If i write a longish message trying to entertain her, i lose. If i just ignore her, shes not going to message me back obv, i lose. If i just send a short response like "Lol", i lose because she thinks im just another loser who makes boring conversastion. I can tell this girl is a b!tch, but still.

Any advice for dealing with difficult chicks like this? I know an obviously response would be "dont deal with a low quality chick". But i want to have it in my "texting arsenal" regardless.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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goldengoose

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Responding doesn't mean anything. I've seen a lot of chicks on other sites talk about how they use online dating for fun just to pass the time at work or when they are bored. They laugh at the guys hitting them up and call them losers. If you're not geting back replies of interest you're not going to get laid. Her 1 and 3 word replies isn't going to get you very far.
 

Amilz

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You don't want to be critiqued at all so I don't know what to tell you. I will say that texting can be impersonal and misinterpreted. It's really hard to read a person with just a few texts. She might think you are interested only in an intimate way with that first line.
 

narcissist

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Make fun of her. She will try to validate herself. Thus you get longer messages to work with.

Probably wont get the vag though. But its better then "lol" or "aha" messages



Goldengoose is right. She obviously isn't interested. Just one of those girls whose bored passing time. So at the end of the day, nexting makes more sense.
 
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