"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TEXT Game - Getting the date

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When you approach the girl, she will decide whether or not to be receptive within the first few seconds. If she opens up to you, great. There are infinite reasons why she doesn't open. It's just factors out of your control. If you do engage and manage to number close, she:

-Liked what she saw
-Perceived your value
-Gave you her number so you would go away
-Infinite reasons

GET THE APPOINTMENT!

You are NOT going to build attraction over text after you number close. If she wanted to go out with you, she already decided when you approached her. Getting her to go out with you via texterainment only benefits her. Texting is vaguely interpreted and will ruin your chances more often than not. Don't waste your time because there will always be things out of your control.

You got her number by getting her number.
You get the appointment by getting the appointment.

Cookie-cutter examples:

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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om1xr

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Exactly Texting is a waste of time and it will not benefit you in creating attraction or rapport because attraction is nonnegotiable and about rapport i think its BS because if she is attracted to you that's what really matter because if she is not i guarantee you that she is using you somehow

and honestly she don't give a fvck about knowing you what she really care about is the way she feel when she is with you, its all about if she gets wet and if her body full with different emotions (and emotions change every second so please don't trust a B!tch) but with a lot of texting you make yourself first bored because you are running in circles and not getting what you really want and you make her or she feels bored and when you are both bored ....Well thing goes downward very quickly that's why whenever i visit this forums i see a lot of questions/problems because of Texting

Be Straightforward about what you want from a chick and don't waste your time

Personally I prefer Calling over Texting because i get my answer Right away with no delay and if i use Texting it's Straightforward with no BS talk
 

TheCWord

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Those are excellent text examples. Are they yours?
 
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Yeah. A lot of times guys entertain girls to get a date. Just cut to the chase. In a nutshell:

Do you like me?

[_] Yes
[_] No
 

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nice. Was looking for something like this. it's nice to see a consistent method that works and you can stick to.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Purefilth

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Good stuff man - the kind of thing I would expect from you.
 
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