"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TEXT Game - Getting the date

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When you approach the girl, she will decide whether or not to be receptive within the first few seconds. If she opens up to you, great. There are infinite reasons why she doesn't open. It's just factors out of your control. If you do engage and manage to number close, she:

-Liked what she saw
-Perceived your value
-Gave you her number so you would go away
-Infinite reasons

GET THE APPOINTMENT!

You are NOT going to build attraction over text after you number close. If she wanted to go out with you, she already decided when you approached her. Getting her to go out with you via texterainment only benefits her. Texting is vaguely interpreted and will ruin your chances more often than not. Don't waste your time because there will always be things out of your control.

You got her number by getting her number.
You get the appointment by getting the appointment.

Cookie-cutter examples:

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Exactly Texting is a waste of time and it will not benefit you in creating attraction or rapport because attraction is nonnegotiable and about rapport i think its BS because if she is attracted to you that's what really matter because if she is not i guarantee you that she is using you somehow

and honestly she don't give a fvck about knowing you what she really care about is the way she feel when she is with you, its all about if she gets wet and if her body full with different emotions (and emotions change every second so please don't trust a B!tch) but with a lot of texting you make yourself first bored because you are running in circles and not getting what you really want and you make her or she feels bored and when you are both bored ....Well thing goes downward very quickly that's why whenever i visit this forums i see a lot of questions/problems because of Texting

Be Straightforward about what you want from a chick and don't waste your time

Personally I prefer Calling over Texting because i get my answer Right away with no delay and if i use Texting it's Straightforward with no BS talk
 
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Those are excellent text examples. Are they yours?
 
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Yeah. A lot of times guys entertain girls to get a date. Just cut to the chase. In a nutshell:

Do you like me?

[_] Yes
[_] No
 
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nice. Was looking for something like this. it's nice to see a consistent method that works and you can stick to.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Good stuff man - the kind of thing I would expect from you.
 
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