"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Text experts only how do I progress this chick onto a date?

EyeBRollin

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You shouldn't need more than 2-3 message convo to set the date. You're doing way to much, OP.

Respond to her text with a definite place and time when you have a definite place and time in mind. Set the date in as little steps as possible.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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for the record, when people ask me what i was doing at X time(such as, earlier today or yesterday or last weekend) i usually say something along the lines of "I was discovering a valuable trick to getting more money at the bank: bringing a gun"

you need some of my wit and charm OP
 
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